I’m reminded of him every time I open my car door and hear the crack of the medal bending from when he kicked it in the first time I tried to leave. I’m reminded of him every time I drive through the town of Mustang, Okla. I’m reminded of him when I have a bad dream. I’m reminded of him when certain songs come on the radio. I’m reminded of him often because he is the one person I’ve ever been terrified of.
I was the one out of four women that have been a victim of domestic violence.
Facts like this one are often said, almost to the point where people are no longer listening. I’m sharing my story because no matter how much you’ve heard it, it is important to keep hearing it.
Domestic violence is a “pattern of coercive behaviors used to control an intimate partner,” according to the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence’s website.
Individuals don’t intentionally become involved in an abusive relationship. Domestic violence usually has subtle beginnings and the relationship usually begins with love before turning to dominance, control and sometimes physical violence, according to Alpha Chi Omega’s website.
I never thought I would be a victim, but I was. It is important to know the facts.
People don’t like to talk about domestic violence, but raising awareness is the only way to try to end it.
No one should be ashamed to tell their story and hopefully help someone else who may be experiencing domestic violence, or may experience it in their lifetime.
February is National Teen Dating Violence Awareness and Prevention Month, so don’t be afraid to speak up. Raise awareness and help end domestic violence.
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